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The Messy Millennial's avatar

As a 37-year-old woman I like all these points. Id add one more too. Get to know your parents (if this applies). My view of them has changed over the decades.

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Carly Valancy's avatar

Wow this is such a great addition thank you! What is your recommended way of getting to know your parents better?

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Rachel Johnson's avatar

Love this Carly!

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David Nebinski's avatar

I hope you write a book one day (if you want too), Carly!

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Carly Valancy's avatar

Definitely on my dream list Nebinski... Who knows maybe even this decade 👀

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Chris James's avatar

This essay came out lovely - great photo too.

Thanks for writing and sharing

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Carly Valancy's avatar

Thanks for the feedback and the push to get it out there!

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Lindsey Stanberry's avatar

The advice about high standards is so great! Happy birthday!

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